transponderer asked:
For what it's worth, I really liked your soapboxing about the lolita community. It's nice to know I'm not the only way who feels that way.
aww thank you. (:
yeah I’ve seen some of the nastiness that goes around in the form of entire forums devoted to gossiping about and trashing on other girls, much of it rife with racism and fat-shaming… it’s not something I want to get involved in.
just to clarify though, in case anyone else was confused, the OP sending me the original ask is a perfectly sweet person; I think her intent and the wording got mixed up, so despite my snapping response, don’t think badly of her.